A friend sent me this video, a Dove Project, and I found it fascinating. I could not stop thinking about it. We, as women, can be so critical and hard on ourselves. We see the magazines full of “how to look beautiful” all over the cover, we listen to the harsh comments about someone’s beauty or lack-of on TV, we see the sides of tall buildings plastered in advertisements depicting what beauty is and how one can become beautiful, we see other women on city sidewalks with the latest Tory, Chanel, or Yurman, stiff faces from Botox, and oily residue from the latest wrinkle cream or facial procedure, and we think this is what will make us feel beautiful, which in return, should mean happiness. Right? Maybe, for the immediate moment or as we walk out of the store and strut around for a couple days, and then it fades… Then it happens once again, we go back to the insatiable quest for beauty.
As I watched this video I could not help but see my daughter in these women. It saddened me to think this could be her someday, seeing her own beauty in such a physical and negative way…
As a mom, I hope to instill in my daughter how beautiful she is and that beauty starts from within. I want her to look in the mirror and not see her wrinkles as flaws, but as blessings of a long life. I want her to see the lines around her eyes as many years of wonderful laughter and for being fortunate enough to have had so much to smile about. I want her to see beauty as a person who has a loving heart, has compassion for others, who is optimistic in life, is giving of themselves, and who leaves this Earth making it just a little bit better. Hopefully, my journey as a mother, will instill these qualities into the already rapidly absorbing mind of my sweet innocent two year old daughter. Not an easy task, by far, with so much in society working against us. But, it will be a forever goal of mine. I will always be her mommy, loving, and knowing just how beautiful she is. My hope is, she can see it too.
What is your perception of beauty? I would love to hear about it.